Condolence message - the top 100 for comfort and sympathy

Condolence message - the top 100 for comfort and sympathy

Stefan Petri
published:

Are you looking for touching condolence messages to express deepest sympathy, comfort and hope for a loved one? Then you've come to the right place! The loss of a loved one is one of the most difficult experiences in life. In such moments, it is often difficult to find the right words to offer comfort and express sympathy. Insightful mourning sayings can help you to express the unspeakable and give the bereaved a little hope and comfort. In this article, we have put together a selection of the most beautiful and emotional condolence messages that can be used in mourning cards, messages of condolence or memorial pages. Let yourself be inspired and find the right words to express your condolences.

We have categorized the funeral sayings for you into short and longer ones and according to the reference to the person. At the very end, you will also find some themed backgrounds that you can download to use for your personalized mourning message.

Table of contents

Sayings for mourning cards

  1. May the pain of your loss not overwhelm you and the memory of the time you spent together give you strength for the future.
  2. Our thoughts are with you in these difficult times. We wish you much strength and confidence for the time ahead.
  3. When a loved one dies, you lose many things, but never the time you spent together and the memories of it.
  4. Life ends, love does not. You live on in our hearts and we will never forget you.
  5. Death is not the end, but only a transition. You are no longer here, but always in our hearts.
  6. We mourn with you in silent sympathy and wish you the strength and confidence you need during this difficult time.
  7. One lives twice: the first time in reality, the second time in memory. We will never forget you.
  8. When the sun of life sets, the stars of memory shine. Your memory will always be a part of us.
  9. Love never ends, even when life fades. We will carry you in our hearts wherever we go.
  10. The person goes, the thoughts of him remain. You live on in our hearts and memories, today and forever.
What you have deep in your heart cannot be lost through death.

Ludwig Ganghofer

Writer

Very short condolence messages (e.g. also for a grave liner)

  1. In silent memory
  2. Unforgotten
  3. Rest in peace
  4. Forever in our hearts
  5. Loved and unforgotten
  6. In eternal memory
  7. We miss you
  8. With love and gratitude
  9. In silent mourning
  10. With us forever

Short condolence messages

  1. In silent mourning, we bid farewell to a loved one.
  2. Rest in peace and find your eternal peace.
  3. You will remain unforgotten and live on in our hearts.
  4. Deep in our hearts you will always be with us.
  5. We will keep you in our thoughts forever.
  6. We will miss you, but your love will remain.
  7. You will remain loved and unforgotten in our hearts.
  8. In loving memory of you, you will remain unforgotten.
  9. Your life was a gift that we will always cherish.
  10. Forever in our hearts, connected in love and memory.
Template for a mourning card (front and back) with a tree from which leaves are blowing
Funeral card templates for invitations to funerals and memorial services. Here you can download the templates.

Loving sympathy sayings

  1. Even though you are gone, you will always remain with us in our hearts and minds. Your love and laughter will give us comfort in difficult times.
  2. It hurts to say goodbye, but the beautiful memories of times together will stay with us forever. We will never forget your love and care.
  3. You are no longer where you were, but you are wherever we are. Your love and spirit will always be a part of us.
  4. It is not to die, but only to change the world. You will live on forever in our hearts and accompany us on our journey.
  5. Time does not heal all wounds, but it teaches us to live with the irreplaceable. Your memory will always give us strength and comfort.
  6. Everyone who lives in love remains forever in the hearts of those who loved them. Your place in our hearts is reserved forever.
  7. Death can take a loved one from us, but not the love and memories that bind us together. We will never forget you and will always love you.
  8. Your life was a gift that we cherished. You will live on forever in our memories and hearts and accompany us.
  9. Love never ends, even when life passes. You have left a mark on our hearts that will never fade. Rest in peace.
  10. The time we were able to spend with you was precious and unforgettable. Your love will always accompany us and comfort us in difficult times.
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
You are welcome to download this picture free of charge for your saying here. Just click on the picture or on this link. You can find even more free images below.

Condolence sayings that come from the heart

  1. We bid farewell to a loved one with deep sorrow. May the memory of the beautiful moments we shared together give you comfort and strength during this difficult time.
  2. Our heartfelt condolences for your loss. May the memories of the time you spent together and the love you shared give you comfort in these dark hours.
  3. It is difficult to find the right words, but we would like to express our deepest sympathy. May the memory of your loved one comfort you.
  4. It is with deep regret that we have learned of your loss. We wish you much strength and send you our heartfelt condolences. May fond memories warm your heart.
  5. Our heartfelt condolences at this difficult time. May the memories of the beautiful moments you shared together give you comfort and accompany you through this difficult time.
  6. Our thoughts are with you and we send you our deepest sympathy. May the time of mourning also leave room for fond memories of the deceased.
  7. We would like to express our heartfelt condolences in silent sympathy. May the memory of love and laughter give you comfort and peace.
  8. It was with great regret that we learned of your loss. May the memories of our time together give you comfort and support you in these difficult days.
  9. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May the memories of the beautiful moments and the love you shared give you comfort.
  10. We bid you farewell with deep sorrow and would like to express our heartfelt condolences. May the memory of the deceased give you strength and comfort during this difficult time.

The most beautiful sympathy messages

  1. There is nothing that can replace the absence of a loved one. But the memories of times spent together and the love that remains give us the strength to carry on and honor their memory.
  2. Death can take a loved one from us, but never the love and memories that we carry in our hearts. Your love will continue to accompany us and give us comfort in difficult times.
  3. You will live on forever in the hearts of those who love you. We will miss your kindness and your laughter, but we will keep you in our memories to comfort us.
  4. Life is fleeting, but the love you gave us will remain in our hearts forever. You are still with us in our thoughts and memories, even though we miss you dearly.
  5. It is difficult to find the right words to describe your loss. But we are grateful for the time we were able to spend with you. You will always have a special place in our hearts.
  6. Death may separate life, but it cannot erase the love and memories we share. You will live on forever in our hearts and will always be with us.
  7. We mourn the loss of a loved one, and we are deeply saddened. But the beautiful memories and the love you gave us will help us through the dark days and give us comfort.
  8. Even though you are no longer with us, you will live on in our hearts and memories. Your love and warmth will continue to accompany us and give us comfort in difficult times.
  9. The pain of your loss is immeasurable, but the memories of the happy times we shared together give us the strength to carry on. You will remain in our hearts forever.
  10. Your life was a gift to us all, and we are grateful for every moment we were able to share with you. You will live on in our hearts and give us comfort in our grief.
No one knows death, and no one knows whether it is not the greatest happiness for a person.

Socrates

Thinker

Comforting sayings for sympathy

  1. The loss of a loved one leaves a gap that no one can fill. But the memory of the happy hours spent together remains forever in our hearts. May the time of farewell also give room for the many beautiful memories that give us comfort and accompany us through these difficult days.
  2. In these dark hours of parting, we would like to express our deepest sympathy to you. May the memory of the beautiful moments you shared with the deceased give you comfort and strength. Even though the pain is great, the love you felt for each other will live on forever in your heart.
  3. The death of a loved one is a deep cut that changes our lives forever. But we find comfort and support in the memories of the beautiful times we shared together. May the love and warmth that the deceased left behind give you strength and confidence during this difficult time.
  4. When we have to say goodbye to a loved one, our hearts feel heavy and empty. But the memories and the love we shared remain in our hearts forever. May the thought of this bring you comfort and give you the strength you need to get through this difficult time.
  5. In silent mourning, we would like to express our heartfelt condolences. May the memory of the deceased give you comfort and strength. Even if the pain of the loss is great, the love you felt for each other will remain in your heart forever and will accompany you.
  6. Saying goodbye to a loved one is never easy. But the memories of the wonderful times together and the love that remains give us comfort and strength. May this love and the many wonderful memories help you through this difficult time and give you peace.
  7. In these difficult times of parting, we would like to express our deepest sympathy to you. The pain of losing a loved one is immeasurable, but the memories of the time spent together and the love that remains will give you comfort and strength.
  8. The death of a loved one leaves a deep void in our hearts. But the memories of the beautiful moments spent together and the love that remains give us comfort and hope. May this love accompany you during this difficult time and give you strength.
  9. It is difficult to find the right words of comfort when a loved one passes away. But the memories of the time you spent together and the love you shared will stay in your heart forever and give you strength and comfort during this difficult time.
  10. The pain of losing a loved one is great and difficult to bear. But the memories of the happy times we shared together and the love that remains give us comfort and support. May this love give you strength and confidence during this difficult time.
Template for a mourning card (front and back) with a branch in soft light green
6 text templates for invitation letters for a funeral service (private and business context).

Condolence messages that are particularly suitable for neighbors

  1. We bid you farewell in silent mourning and our thoughts are with you and your family. May the memory of the good times together give you comfort.
  2. The loss of a loved one hurts deeply. We are thinking of you and sending you much strength and comfort during this difficult time.
  3. With deepest sympathy, we would like to express our condolences. May the memory of the happy moments with the deceased bring you comfort.
  4. With deepest sympathy, we would like to express our heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts are with you and we are at your side during this difficult time.
  5. Death can take a loved one from us, but never the memories we share with them. Our thoughts are with you.
  6. We mourn with you and would like to express our deepest sympathy. May the love and warmth you shared with the deceased bring you comfort.
  7. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. May the memory of the beautiful moments you shared together give you strength and comfort.
  8. It was with great regret that we learned of your loss. We wish you much strength and are with you in our thoughts.
  9. It hurts to say goodbye, but the beautiful memories will remain in our hearts forever. We are with you in our thoughts and send you much strength.
  10. With deep sorrow and sincere sympathy, we would like to express our condolences. May time heal the wounds and the memory of the beautiful moments comfort you.

Condolence messages for friends

  1. It is with deep sorrow that I bid farewell to your loved one. May the memory of the beautiful times together give you comfort and strength.
  2. There are no words that can ease the pain of your loss. My thoughts are with you and I stand by you during this difficult time.
  3. The loss of a loved one is incredibly difficult. My thoughts and sympathy are with you. I wish you much strength and comfort.
  4. I am thinking of you in silent mourning and deepest sympathy. May the love and memories you shared with the deceased give you strength.
  5. It hurts to say goodbye, but the memories of the happy times we shared together will remain in our hearts forever. I am there for you when you need me.
  6. I can't ease your pain, but I can support you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  7. Words cannot ease the pain, but I hope that my sincere sympathy can give you some comfort. I am always here for you.
  8. Death can take a loved one from us, but never the love and memories we carry in our hearts. I am with you at this difficult time.
  9. It was with great regret that I learned of your loss. I wish you much strength and send you my deepest sympathy. You are not alone.
  10. I would like to offer you my heartfelt condolences at this difficult time. May the memory of the beautiful moments give you comfort and guide you through these dark days.
What you have deep in your heart cannot be lost through death.

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Poet and politician

Funeral sayings from the heart for mother and father

  1. The loss of your mother leaves a great void. May the memory of her love and care give you comfort at this difficult time.
  2. Your father was a special person who will always live on in our hearts. May his wisdom and love accompany you through this difficult time.
  3. It is with deepest sympathy that I bid farewell to your beloved mother. We will all miss her strength and her laughter. Be embraced in these difficult hours.
  4. Your father touched so many lives and will live on in our hearts forever. May his love give you comfort and strength now.
  5. The loss of your mother is incredibly difficult. I wish you much strength and send you my deepest sympathy. Her love will always be a part of you.
  6. I think of your father in silent mourning. May the memories of his loving nature and his zest for life give you comfort.
  7. Your mother was a wonderful person who will always live on in our hearts. May her love strengthen you during this difficult time.
  8. It hurts beyond words to say goodbye to your father. We will miss his kindness and wisdom, but he will always live on in our hearts.
  9. It is with deep sadness that I say goodbye to your beloved mother. We will all miss her warmth and care, but the memories of her will remain.
  10. Your father has left an unforgettable mark on our hearts. May the many beautiful memories of him give you comfort and strength.

Recommendations for the tactful use of sympathy messages

  • Choose a salutation: Think about whether you would like to write the funeral saying in the "you" form or the "you" form. The "you" form is more personal and is suitable for close friends and family, while the "you" form is more formal and may be suitable for acquaintances or colleagues.
  • Suitable length: Make sure that the saying fits into the available space on the card. Shorter sayings are suitable for smaller cards or bows, longer ones for larger cards or letters.
  • Appropriate tone: Choose a saying that is appropriate to the relationship with the deceased and the bereaved. An overly formal or personal tone may seem inappropriate.
  • Individual touch: Add a few personal words to the saying. A handwritten greeting or a short personal remembrance can be very comforting.
  • Cultural sensitivity: Consider the cultural and religious backgrounds of the bereaved. A saying that is comforting in your culture may be perceived differently in another culture.
  • No clichés: Avoid hackneyed phrases or sayings that could come across as insincere. Choose a saying that really comforts and comes from the heart.
  • Legibility: Write the saying legibly and neatly, especially if the card is handwritten. Illegible writing can detract from the thought of consolation.
  • Timing: Send the card soon after the loss, but not immediately. A few days after the funeral service can be a good time to give the mourners space to breathe.
  • Naming: Include the name of the deceased and the mourner in your message. This personalizes the card and shows that you are really thinking of them.
  • Signature: End the card with a personal signature. "In silent mourning" or "With sincere sympathy" followed by your name shows your sympathy and personal connection.

Follow these recommendations to convey comfort and sympathy to the bereaved in a respectful and appropriate way.

FAQ section: Frequently asked questions about funeral expressions and condolences

1. which salutation should I use in a funeral card?

The choice of salutation depends on your relationship with the bereaved. For close friends and family members, you can use the personal "you" form. For acquaintances, colleagues or formal relationships, the "you" form is more appropriate. Examples: "Dear Maria" or "Dear Müller family".

2 What should I write in a mourning card?

In addition to a suitable mourning saying, you can add personal words. Express your sympathy and condolences, share a fond memory of the deceased and offer support. For example: "My thoughts are with you in these difficult times. I like to remember the wonderful moments we spent with [name of the deceased]."

3. how long should a eulogy be?

The length of a funeral saying depends on the size of the card and the space available. Short sayings work well for smaller cards or bows, while longer sayings in large cards or letters offer more space for comfort and sympathy.

4. can I use religious funeral sayings?

Yes, religious mourning sayings can be comforting, especially if the bereaved are believers. Be sure to consider the religious beliefs of the recipients to ensure the saying is appropriate. For example: "May God give you strength and comfort at this difficult time."

Template for a mourning card in black and white with floral motif, front and back
You can download 6 stylish, high-quality templates for funeral cards here

5 When should I send a bereavement card?

It is appropriate to send a bereavement card soon after the loss, ideally within the first two weeks. If you can't make it in time, it's still better to send a card later than not to send one at all.

6. should I write the card by hand or can I print it?

A handwritten card is more personal and shows that you have taken the time to express your sympathy. If your handwriting is difficult to read, you can print the message, but add a handwritten greeting and your signature.

7. is it okay to include Blum or a donation in the card?

Yes, you can mention that you sent Blum or made a donation. It's a nice gesture that shows you were thinking of the family beyond the card. Example: "In honor of [name of deceased], I made a donation to [name of organization]."

8. what should I avoid writing in a bereavement card?

Avoid phrases that downplay the mourner's pain, such as "He/she is in a better place now" or "It was God's will". Well-meaning advice or pleas to be strong can also come across as inappropriate. Keep your words simple, honest and empathetic.

9. can I share humorous memories?

Humorous memories can be comforting if they are respectful and appropriate. Make sure the overall tone of the card remains sensitive. A gentle, loving remembrance can ease the pain and bring a smile to a difficult time.

10 How do I end a bereavement card?

End the card with a sensitive closing phrase and your signature. Examples: "With deepest sympathy" or "With silent greetings". These formulas show respect and compassion.

The loss of a loved one is painful and leaves a huge gap in our lives. Funeral sayings can provide comfort and help you find the right words when you are at a loss for words. Whether in cards, on ribbons or in personal letters - the right words can express compassion and sympathy. We hope that our collection of mourning sayings will help you during this difficult time. May the memory of the time spent together and the love that remains give you strength and comfort.

Death is not the end. It is just another star rising in the sky.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

American philosopher and writer

Download: Free pictures for your sympathy cards

Here you will find images in portrait and landscape format that are ideal as backgrounds for mourning cards. You can easily convert these images to black and white in Word or your preferred program. Alternatively, you can edit them in your smartphone app and add your own funeral message to send the image digitally.

Mourning sayings from the heart - The top 100 of the really best mourning sayings - Candle
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use
Mourning card background image for mourning sayings: For free use

786, 444, 1087,1041
Published on by Stefan Petri
Published on:
From Stefan Petri
Together with his brother Matthias, Stefan Petri runs the popular specialist forum PSD-Tutorials.de and the e-learning platform TutKit.com, which focuses on the training and further education of digital professional skills.
Back to overview